Do you ever have one of those days when you are like "Wow. The world is full of really stupid people"? And instead of feeling really awesome about the fact that you seem to a genius compared to a large percentage of the population, it just makes you really sad. Sad because... well, the world is full of really stupid people. Sad because you are trying to raise decent people in a world that is so full of stupid people. Even sadder is, some of these "stupid" people are not stupid at all. They are well educated intelligent people, but sadly, they are followers. They jump on the band wagon and never REALLY look at both sides.
This week I have seen, read, and heard about so many instances that have left me with this sad feeling. Stories of parents teaching their children that cops cannot be trusted. That there is only justice for people who have the right skin color. That the only good cop is a dead cop. Do you think those children are going to grow up respecting the law? NO, they won't. Or are they going to grow up with a "poor me, everything is unfair for me" mentality? Yes, yes they will. Or are they going to be one of those idiots that record the officer every time they get pulled over: "Oh look this pig officer pulled me over because I am (insert minority)!" No, you got pulled over for going 85 mph in a construction zone. (Seriously, I am not making this one up. Trust me there are a lot of videos out there that fit this theme.)
I have seen Facebook pages/comments where people (a lot of people) are actually suggesting following home officers. So they can hurt their families. Really?! I wonder what kind of things they were taught by their parents. Cops cannot be trusted...there is only justice for people who have
the right skin color... the only good cop is a dead cop... Do they really think the officers would leave their families unprotected? Hint: they wouldn't.
I have seen police officers being attacked by mobs of people, while they stand there and take it. I watched a video of "protesters" harassing a African American officer. Saying such horrible things, that I find it absolutely amazing that he didn't lose it. Saying he was a disgrace, that his children hated him, and that he was not a man, all the while "F*** YOU" was being yelled at him. I really "enjoyed" the part where one of the protester tried to tell him they were doing it for the safety of his son, so he won't end up shot by the cops. I am, again, amazed that he didn't turn to her and say, "I don't have to worry about my son being shot by the cops because he will be a law abiding citizen" or "he is more likely to be shot by thugs". Instead he calmly kept walking.
I have read articles about all the "injustice killings of black men" in the last year. I obviously support law enforcement, but I was interested in these stories. So I looked into them a little more. All were very clear that the officers were white. All skimming over why the cops were with the "victims" in the first place. (HINT: Criminal behavior is a great way to get the attention of cops.) There was only one, were the victim was obviously innocent, and the police department took the blame and the officer was punished (again those facts were over looked). It really wasn't very hard to look into these cases a little more to see the actual facts. After a little bit of research, the question should be "why are these men fighting with the cops?" not "why did the cops shoot these black men?". Apparently FACTS or EVIDENCE doesn't really mean anything to people today. Much easier to cry out for justice and to ignore the fact that justice was served. It is also easier to skim the headlines and jump on the band wagon. Sorry, but just because you don't like the outcome does not mean justice was not served.
Another thing, how is it not racist to state that the "victim" was black and the officer was white? Shouldn't it just be "Officer shoots an unarmed man"? And why is there not any protesting for the "white victims"? Believe it or not, those are more common. What about the white kid that was shot and killed by a white officer? (***Again toy gun with orange tip off, waving and pointing at people. Where were the parents? AND WHY DO THEY EVEN MAKE TOY GUNS THAT LOOK REAL?***) That story made the news for 10 seconds. There were no protests. No riots. No big wig "reverend" showing up to hold marches and look for "justice". If the people who are protesting REALLY wanted to see change, to see all races being treated equally, they would be looking for "justice" in ALL the officer involved shootings regardless of race. BUT they don't, they only care when the "victim" is African American. (ie #blacklivesmatter) So I guess they are saying that one race is more important or better than another, which is the very definition of racism.
I am so over this BULL POO POO. When I see the protesters on the news, my only thoughts are "what a waste of time/ tax payer money", "stupid people", and more recently "thanks for all the overtime & paying for our family trip to DISNEYLAND!!!!". (Hence the picture above. Just trying to find something to laugh at.) I guess those are not the only thoughts, they are just the main ones. Hate to break it you, these protest are not really going to change anything. Most police officers are not racist, and do treat everyone the same. If you look and act like a threat, they will treat you like a threat. For example, if you are riding a motorcycle, covered in tattoos, probably wouldn't be a problem. However, if you are also wearing a well known biker gang vest...probably going to be viewed as a threat. If you are walking down the street wearing a base ball cap, jeans and a tee-shirt, probably wouldn't be a problem. However, if you are walking like a pimp down the street dressed like a thug; wearing a red base ball cap, a red tee shirt 3 sizes too big, and jeans 3 sizes too big that you have to hold up because they are under your butt, then yeah, you might be viewed as a threat. At first...but then if you are polite and compliant there shouldn't be an issue. The issues come when you run, resist arrest, fight, or try to hurt the officer. Those are the things that make you look like a criminal. Which would be actually what you are if you do those things. So cops being racist will not/ should not change if they are already not racist. Again most are not, if they are, yeah they should find another job.
Another reason the protests won't change anything is because police are trained the way they are for a reason. So far this year over a hundred officers were killed in the line of duty. A large number where murdered. The sheep (that's most of us non cops citizens) of world have no idea the dangers, wolves, that are out there. And they are happy with not knowing. Police officers, sheep dogs, know and are standing in between us and the wolves. I have heard (please read in a whining voice, makes it better) "why do they have to shoot to kill? Why can't they shoot them in the leg or arm?". Well DUH, because they can still fight back! The whole point is to put an end to the threat as quickly as possible and walk away alive. Pretty sure that's the goal of the bad guy too. If they have a gun, they can still shoot it with only one hand. So shooting them in the leg won't do anything! Even if they don't have a gun, being shot in the leg or arm might not stop them. Your body has natural defenses against pain, and if their adrenaline is pumping they might not even feel it. Not to mention there are drugs that can make them like superman. A crazy scary superman that just does not stop. My other favorite (again with the whining voice) "why do we militarize the police force? Is it really necessary?". Why?! Because they are our local first defense. On 9-11 it wasn't the military that showed up first and ran into the twin towers (along with the FDNY) to pull people out to safety. No, it was the police. When there is a school shooting, it isn't the military that shows up first and goes into the line of fire. Is it necessary?! YES! The world is a BAD place full of BAD people that are willing to do what ever to get what they want. I don't know about you, but I kind of like knowing that there are people out there trained to take down the bad people.
I completely realize that those people who are anti- cop, who are protesting, who are allowing racism to continue to thrive, or even really trying for change will never read these words. Even if they do it is very unlikely that they will agree with me, but I refuse to remain silent. Our law enforcement officers are heroes and deserve to have our support. They should know we have their backs. So thank you officers for doing the job!!!
My Crazy & Blessed Life
Saturday, December 13, 2014
Monday, December 8, 2014
BE THE CHANGE THAT YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD ~Mahatma Gandhi
It has been awhile since I posted. Mostly because there has not been much to talk about. However, now I have something to say, and since Facebook limits how many words I can use in a post, I am back on this blog. So get ready for my rant, because lately, I have been frustrated, angry, and worried.
First off, I am frustrated and angry because I had to explain racism to my children. While watching the news last week A said to me "Mommy why are the people on the news saying people with darker skin are different from us?" Are you freaking kidding me?!?! I work hard at raising my daughters to love and respect everyone the way the Lord loves them. That what is on the inside is what counts. Up to this point, people of different skin color were just people. Now, my daughter just learned, falsely, that skin color matters. I found myself giving my 9 year daughter a quick history lesson, trying to reinforce that skin color should not matter to us, and does not matter to God. Realizing, the whole time, that my daughter just lost some innocence. Not because of what she sees in her daily life, but because we were watching the news. Isn't the news suppose to be factual and somewhat educational?
Let me be clear, I do believe racism still exist today. Obliviously, there are still white supremacist and groups that go the other way around, out in the world. I would love to see change. I would love to have my girls grow up in a world that racism and HATE didn't exist. I felt like I was doing my part by teaching my girls the right way. I agree with Mahatma Gandhi when he said:
First off, I am frustrated and angry because I had to explain racism to my children. While watching the news last week A said to me "Mommy why are the people on the news saying people with darker skin are different from us?" Are you freaking kidding me?!?! I work hard at raising my daughters to love and respect everyone the way the Lord loves them. That what is on the inside is what counts. Up to this point, people of different skin color were just people. Now, my daughter just learned, falsely, that skin color matters. I found myself giving my 9 year daughter a quick history lesson, trying to reinforce that skin color should not matter to us, and does not matter to God. Realizing, the whole time, that my daughter just lost some innocence. Not because of what she sees in her daily life, but because we were watching the news. Isn't the news suppose to be factual and somewhat educational?
Let me be clear, I do believe racism still exist today. Obliviously, there are still white supremacist and groups that go the other way around, out in the world. I would love to see change. I would love to have my girls grow up in a world that racism and HATE didn't exist. I felt like I was doing my part by teaching my girls the right way. I agree with Mahatma Gandhi when he said:
“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
Apparently the change that others want to see is more along the lines of this:
and this...
how about this...
and finally, this
I understand the idea of protesting and don't have a problem with a peaceful protest. What is happening today is not protesting. It is RIOTING and TERRORISM. If Martin Luther King (a REAL CIVIL RIGHTS HERO) was alive today, he would hang his head shame. To see his life work compared to CRIMINAL BEHAVIOR. It is sickening. Don't these people realize Martin Luther King was peaceful. Yes he protested, and rightly so, but I don't think I ever heard of him looting, burning, and destroying. He was a hero, the people in the above photos, are criminals. The people out there today "protesting" are doing nothing but increasing the hate in the world. And the Media is turning them into the heroes and making the ACTUAL Heroes the monsters. That is a shame.
I am angry and frustrated that people have opinions on things that they know nothing about. Going on and on about what this officer should have done or "excessive force", when they have NO IDEA what they are talking about. Yes, there are bad cops out there, just like there are bad teachers, bad doctors, bad priest/pastors, and yes, bad firemen/ women. They are out there, I am not denying that. BUT 99.99% of them are good people trying to do their job the best they can and still come home safe at night. I am angry to hear people call these Heroes cowards because they do what it takes to come home. They have the right to defend themselves, even against an "UNARMED" man. Here is an example of why "UNARMED" does not mean "NOT DANGEROUS". Follow the link to read the story, but to sum it up, the man in bandages is a cop who was faced an UNARMED man. It is a miracle he is alive.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10204695764250437&set=a.1193627637283.157865.1126176157&type=1
There are MANY other stories just like this one, but they don't make the news. There are no protests, no riots. No one cares that every single day cops are out there putting their lives on the line for them. They have to make life or death decisions in nano seconds. Unless you have been in the situation you can not understand. Even as a LEO wife I cannot fully grasps what it is like. So to those who seems to be talking out their butts, SHUT UP or SIGN UP. If you really think you can do it better, then GREAT!!! Sign up, get your butt out there and be part of the change. Most offices are short handed, and I am sure they would love to have someone who knows so much already. Oh, and FYI, cops want body cameras too. More often then not, they clear the police officer of wrongful doings. Body cameras just add proof that what the officer said, happened. So please continue to argue that they are needed.
Another reason for anger and frustration. WHERE ARE THE PARENTS? When I hear about a child who is shot and killed by officers because he is carrying around a toy gun that looks real, "I think where were his parents?". Who buys a toy gun that looks real for a child? Why didn't they teach their child to listen to the police when they say "drop it"? Or, how about, "don't point this toy gun at people"? This is a real tragedy! Our children are not being taught common sense, or even common decency. Our children are the future and we need to teach them. Teach them consequences! Teach them they are not the center of the world. Teach them that they cannot do or take whatever they want "just 'cause they wanted to". If we don't, we only have our self to blame when they grow up into total scum bags. Now, I do know and understand that a parent can only do their best. Sometimes the best parents can still have scum bag children. At least they try! I try to show my girls I love them with my whole being, but they are not the center of my world. I will love them no matter what, and I am always going to be there for them. However, I want them to know that when the decisions they make get them in trouble, I will not save them from the consequence. I will fiercely protect them, but they also need to stand on their own. That being said, I am doing my best in teaching them to make good decisions. I pray that they grow up to be caring, compassionate, loving, strong, good, decent women. I believe that is my job a parent.
I am worried. I am worried because tonight I am going to give my husband his goodbye hug and kiss, say "be safe" and watch him leave. I am not alone, there are LEO families all over who are sending their heroes out to protect and serve. I am worried because no matter how good of person my husband is, people hate him. I am worried that one of these days he might have to use his weapon to defend himself, and it will forever scar him. I am worried about the other LEOs who are out with him and their families. I know the worry that comes from watching the news, seeing the horrible things, and not knowing if he is safe. I know the worry while waiting for the check-in text from my husband. The text that is just a kissie face :* that says everything is fine. I am worried that, one day, my girls are going to realize the hate people feel for their Daddy, because of his badge. I am worried that realization will make them start to worry about their Daddy when he leaves at night. More loss of innocence.
I am PROUD. I am so incredibly proud of my husband. My girls and I know that he is a hero. We know that when he is out there doing his job, he is doing it for us. We know he is helping, serving, and protecting people. We know that he would do so for even those who disrespect and hate him. We know how tired and worn out he is when he comes home. I am proud of him. I will fiercely protect him from anyone who has anything bad to say about him or his LEO brothers/sisters.
I will continue to pray that this madness will end soon. I will continue to pray that innocent people are no longer terrorized and hurt. I will continue to pray for the safety of the officers who are trying to protect those innocent people. I will continue to pray that change does happen for the better.
Rant over...
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Update! It has Been Awhile!
Wow! It has been awhile since I shared with the world the fascinating details of my daily life. I thought I would take the time to sit and write out a quick update. Let me start with the girls. All three are loving school and doing very well. All three are making Daddy proud with their love of Stars Wars, followed by Lord of the Rings, Indiana Jones and Harry Potter. They love the movies so much that for Halloween A was Queen Amidala; H was Galadriel from Lord of the Rings; and M was Hermoine. After watching the movies (or at least hearing the movies while they are playing) I am getting pretty good at singing the theme songs. I also do a decent rendition of the "My Little Pony" song and some of the songs from "Phineas and Ferb". It is a special talent. A's now has a favorite composer, John Williams. No joke, she will watch the movie credits just to see who the composer was for the music. She is getting pretty good at knowing John Williams' music!
As for Brian. His office went to ten hour shifts at the beginning of October, and he is loving them. I was not so sure about them, but I have to admit he is more of a human being during his work week. He uses real words now, not just grunts. :) He also went to the swing shift, and apparently he likes it because he signed up for them again. With the swing shift he gets home around 12-1am, and is able to get up with us in the morning. Which means he gets to see the girls before school. He is also awake for his first day off, which is nice. However, with swings he does not have a partner, and the number of accidents can be crazy.
Okay, now for the real reason I am writing... Brian got pulled over on his way home this morning for speeding!! I don't know why, but I find this to be hilarious! I LOVE the fact that he got pulled over. It is just like when he super glued the super glue container to his finger. (I can't even type that without laughing!) So funny! I also love the fact he didn't get a ticket. Here is how he said it went down:
CHP: "Good morning sir, I pulled you over for your speed."
(Brian calmly hands him his DL and police ID, doesn't say anything...)
CHP: (To his partner.) "Hey, he is one of us! So what office are you out of? What class ?" (More CHP talk) "Well have a nice day! Drive safe!"
If it had been me there would have been a lot of me saying "I'm sorry" and praying he/she asks why I have the star on my DL.
So that is that! Brian got pulled over! (Hee hee) He is loving his job! The girls are doing great! I am still busy with all the fun and blessings in my life. :) All right, I am calling it a night!
Blessings,
~Cara
As for Brian. His office went to ten hour shifts at the beginning of October, and he is loving them. I was not so sure about them, but I have to admit he is more of a human being during his work week. He uses real words now, not just grunts. :) He also went to the swing shift, and apparently he likes it because he signed up for them again. With the swing shift he gets home around 12-1am, and is able to get up with us in the morning. Which means he gets to see the girls before school. He is also awake for his first day off, which is nice. However, with swings he does not have a partner, and the number of accidents can be crazy.
Okay, now for the real reason I am writing... Brian got pulled over on his way home this morning for speeding!! I don't know why, but I find this to be hilarious! I LOVE the fact that he got pulled over. It is just like when he super glued the super glue container to his finger. (I can't even type that without laughing!) So funny! I also love the fact he didn't get a ticket. Here is how he said it went down:
CHP: "Good morning sir, I pulled you over for your speed."
(Brian calmly hands him his DL and police ID, doesn't say anything...)
CHP: (To his partner.) "Hey, he is one of us! So what office are you out of? What class ?" (More CHP talk) "Well have a nice day! Drive safe!"
If it had been me there would have been a lot of me saying "I'm sorry" and praying he/she asks why I have the star on my DL.
So that is that! Brian got pulled over! (Hee hee) He is loving his job! The girls are doing great! I am still busy with all the fun and blessings in my life. :) All right, I am calling it a night!
Blessings,
~Cara
Monday, September 9, 2013
Yes, I am alive!
I know it has been a ridiculous amount of time since I have written a blog. For those who have noticed the absence, I am sorry. I hope it makes you feel better to know that Brian has been hounding me to write one since July. :)
So, you are probably wondering what life has been like since Brian has been off Break-In. To sum it up...busy! He is loving his job! He has been working weekend graves, and it has not been that bad. It is a little harder to make plans with friends who work "normal" hours, but it is not impossible. I feel like we are getting used to this schedule, and of course that means that it is changing soon. In October his office is switching to ten hour shifts and Brian will switch to swing shift. Brian is happy about this change, but to be honest, I am not so sure. Like all shifts, it will have good things and bad things, I am just hoping the good is in a larger quantity. I know I shouldn't worry. Especially since I know at the end of October it will hit me that I am surviving the dreaded change. I will say to myself, "Huh, I am living through the dreaded change. Guess it was not that bad". Yes, I talk to myself, usually in my head, but not always. Don't judge. ;)
The girls are doing great! A just had her 8th birthday, and invited all the girls in her class to the party! It was CRAZY! There was also a slumber party, but with only five girls. (THANK GOODNESS!!) She is now a big 3rd grader! H just started 1st grade, and is, so far, loving it. M is going to all day preschool two days a week, which leaves me childless two days a week! The first day is already filled up with working at the Pregnancy Help Center. The other day happens to be one of Brian's days off, which means DATE DAY!! Date day is sometimes spent doing not so "date" things, like cleaning out the garage, but still, NO KIDS! :) Both A and H are playing soccer, luckily on the same team. Brian has only been able to make it to one game, but he takes them to practice the majority of the time and let's M tag along. Which is nice, because it gives me a break and him Daddy daughter time. My girls have such a great Daddy! :)
As for me I am as busy as ever. Besides all the normal stuff and being a taxi for the girls, I have been working more at the PHC! I also met a new friend a couple months ago who just happens to be a Chippy wife! She fits right in with the BFF and Bestie at the play dates and movie nights! My kids love her kids! Our husbands have stuff in common. So her family has become apart of our family. Both Brian and I feel very blessed to have the friends we have, and we are happy to have them join the family. Plus, it is nice to be able to have "my husband is working/ the kids are driving me bonkers/ I don't want to be by myself" play dates with her. I really feel it was a God thing that I met her. I was beginning to think I was not going to find a friend that was 1) in the CHP family, 2) was local, and we could actually do things together, 3) had similar beliefs/ lifestyles. Don't get me wrong, I love my friends that I already had. Each one is special, amazing, and unique; but, according to the books and the people who ran the spouse panel, it is important to have friends inside the CHP. I already had my friends I made during the academy, but none of them are near me. When I mentioned to Brian how I was feeling, he told me to pray about it. The next day she came into the PHC to interview to be a volunteer. COME ON! Isn't that awesome! It is not often that I get and answer to a prayer that quickly! THEN, a couple weeks later, I ran into a friend from high school who is also a CHP wife! Now she comes to the "my husband is working/ the kids are driving me bonkers/ I don't want to be by myself" play dates. I don't know if you can tell but I feel very blessed lately!
That is about it! Things are going good. Blessed and busy!! Hopefully, I get the chance to write again soon.
Blessings,
~Cara
So, you are probably wondering what life has been like since Brian has been off Break-In. To sum it up...busy! He is loving his job! He has been working weekend graves, and it has not been that bad. It is a little harder to make plans with friends who work "normal" hours, but it is not impossible. I feel like we are getting used to this schedule, and of course that means that it is changing soon. In October his office is switching to ten hour shifts and Brian will switch to swing shift. Brian is happy about this change, but to be honest, I am not so sure. Like all shifts, it will have good things and bad things, I am just hoping the good is in a larger quantity. I know I shouldn't worry. Especially since I know at the end of October it will hit me that I am surviving the dreaded change. I will say to myself, "Huh, I am living through the dreaded change. Guess it was not that bad". Yes, I talk to myself, usually in my head, but not always. Don't judge. ;)
The girls are doing great! A just had her 8th birthday, and invited all the girls in her class to the party! It was CRAZY! There was also a slumber party, but with only five girls. (THANK GOODNESS!!) She is now a big 3rd grader! H just started 1st grade, and is, so far, loving it. M is going to all day preschool two days a week, which leaves me childless two days a week! The first day is already filled up with working at the Pregnancy Help Center. The other day happens to be one of Brian's days off, which means DATE DAY!! Date day is sometimes spent doing not so "date" things, like cleaning out the garage, but still, NO KIDS! :) Both A and H are playing soccer, luckily on the same team. Brian has only been able to make it to one game, but he takes them to practice the majority of the time and let's M tag along. Which is nice, because it gives me a break and him Daddy daughter time. My girls have such a great Daddy! :)
As for me I am as busy as ever. Besides all the normal stuff and being a taxi for the girls, I have been working more at the PHC! I also met a new friend a couple months ago who just happens to be a Chippy wife! She fits right in with the BFF and Bestie at the play dates and movie nights! My kids love her kids! Our husbands have stuff in common. So her family has become apart of our family. Both Brian and I feel very blessed to have the friends we have, and we are happy to have them join the family. Plus, it is nice to be able to have "my husband is working/ the kids are driving me bonkers/ I don't want to be by myself" play dates with her. I really feel it was a God thing that I met her. I was beginning to think I was not going to find a friend that was 1) in the CHP family, 2) was local, and we could actually do things together, 3) had similar beliefs/ lifestyles. Don't get me wrong, I love my friends that I already had. Each one is special, amazing, and unique; but, according to the books and the people who ran the spouse panel, it is important to have friends inside the CHP. I already had my friends I made during the academy, but none of them are near me. When I mentioned to Brian how I was feeling, he told me to pray about it. The next day she came into the PHC to interview to be a volunteer. COME ON! Isn't that awesome! It is not often that I get and answer to a prayer that quickly! THEN, a couple weeks later, I ran into a friend from high school who is also a CHP wife! Now she comes to the "my husband is working/ the kids are driving me bonkers/ I don't want to be by myself" play dates. I don't know if you can tell but I feel very blessed lately!
That is about it! Things are going good. Blessed and busy!! Hopefully, I get the chance to write again soon.
Blessings,
~Cara
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
Bye Bye Break In!!
Today was Brian's first solo day! Friday was his last day of Break in, and after ten months, the training is finally over. He made it with out any extensions! Woo-Hoo!
I was going to write during fourth phase, but it was only a week long. Plus I had M's birthday party to prepare for, so time was very limited. For fourth phase Brian went back to the day shift. Which means his commute home is crazy long. When he is on graves his commute is opposite of the heavy traffic, but on days, he is in the heavy traffic. He will finish out the month on the days shift and then he will be back on graves, so he only has to deal with the traffic a few more times.
Someone asked me how I feel about the shifts, days vs. graves. So I thought I would do a pros/ cons list for both. I would like to say that I am new at this. I might feel very differently in a couple of months. :) Also I am not including anything about safety/ dangers. Just my opinions on daily life stuff.
Graves:
Pros:
Pros:
Blessings,
~Cara
I was going to write during fourth phase, but it was only a week long. Plus I had M's birthday party to prepare for, so time was very limited. For fourth phase Brian went back to the day shift. Which means his commute home is crazy long. When he is on graves his commute is opposite of the heavy traffic, but on days, he is in the heavy traffic. He will finish out the month on the days shift and then he will be back on graves, so he only has to deal with the traffic a few more times.
Someone asked me how I feel about the shifts, days vs. graves. So I thought I would do a pros/ cons list for both. I would like to say that I am new at this. I might feel very differently in a couple of months. :) Also I am not including anything about safety/ dangers. Just my opinions on daily life stuff.
Graves:
Pros:
- Commute. Brian is in a much better mood when he has not been sitting in traffic for two hours.
- I feel like I get more things done at night. Mostly because 1) the girls are asleep, and 2) I get bored so I might as well do something productive. I have no one needing my attention. Plus I can watch whatever I want on TV!
- I feel like I talk to Brian more. This is because we talk a lot on the phone while he is commuting. Hands free of course!! We get to have our "how was your day?" conversation.
- From 10 pm on, he has a partner. (Okay, I guess this could be counted as a safety thing. Oh well.)
- Brian is able to get a quick work out in before going to bed. Workout lowers stress = better moods. Plus, it keeps Brian in his current size so we do not spend money on new uniform pants.
- When I leave the house, I don't have to lock the dogs out.
- His first day off is spent sleeping. He gets home around 8 am and then sleeps until 2 pm. Makes it hard to plan anything on those days.
- If he gets off late, the girls (when in school) do not get to see him.
- We have to go into quiet mode during the day, at least upstairs. Makes it hard to do any cleaning.
Pros:
- His first day off is actually off. He wakes up with the rest of us and we can have the full day.
- I get to see Brian more, even if he is getting ready for the next day.
- When he gets off on time (and traffic allows) he can see the girls before bed time.
- I sleep better when Brian is home.
- Easier to clean upstairs.
- Commute. Seriously.
- No quick workout for Brian.
- Night time productivity is at an all time low. Unless I stay up super late...like tonight.
- No phone conversations. I am asleep on his way to work, and on his way home I usually busy with dinner and bed time prep.
- When I leave the house, I have to lock the dogs outside and they tear up my yard. They dig in the flower beds and vegetable gardens! Grrrrr!
Blessings,
~Cara
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
Sicky Poos and More... :P
Once again, it has been awhile. Since my last post we have celebrated H's 6th birthday, Mother's Day, and other things. As a family, we passed a around a nasty cold. Just when we all recovered from the cold, H came home early from school with a fever last Tuesday. She really had a fever and spent the day sleeping, watching TV, and looking like a zombie. Then Wednesday morning M came down with the a stomach bug, so I had two sickies on the couch vegging out. Both were fine by Wednesday evening. So Thursday morning, H went back to school, until I got a call from the school that she had a stomach ache and fever again. I picked her up, but she did not seem that sick. By the time we got home, her fever was gone. She played normal and ate normal the rest of the day. She was fine Friday and over the weekend. No stomach issues and no fever. A, however, tossed her cookies while at the park Saturday evening. Her fever did not hit until Sunday morning. And it was a doozy! All day Sunday and Monday she had a fever and laid around looking like a zombie. Yesterday, Monday, M had a doctors appointment for her preschool physical, so I took her while Brian stayed home with A. On my way to the appointment the school calls and said H was in the office complaining of a stomach ache and had a fever, again. And again, once I picked her up she was fine. No fever and full of energy. Stomach ache my tush, she downed her lunch and asked for more. The doctor suggested I make H stay home from school today, just in case. A's fever was gone this morning, but she was still a little sluggish, so she also stayed home. Tomorrow, both will go back to school and hopefully they stay there all day. Or so help me...
As for Brian, he is doing well. He is still in third phase. For him, fourth phase is being postponed (NOT EXTENDED) a week. His FTO for fourth phase (same FTO as first phase) is taking the Sergeant's test the week Brian was scheduled to have fourth phase. So he will just have and extra week with his current FTO. Brian also received a subpoena for his first court date next month! Kind of exciting now, but I am sure it will get old real fast. :) Other than that, just the normal DUI, tickets and reports. Lots of reports.
That's about it. Nothing really interesting. Which makes me think once Brian is done with Break-in I might retire from my blogging career. :)
Blessings,
~Cara
As for Brian, he is doing well. He is still in third phase. For him, fourth phase is being postponed (NOT EXTENDED) a week. His FTO for fourth phase (same FTO as first phase) is taking the Sergeant's test the week Brian was scheduled to have fourth phase. So he will just have and extra week with his current FTO. Brian also received a subpoena for his first court date next month! Kind of exciting now, but I am sure it will get old real fast. :) Other than that, just the normal DUI, tickets and reports. Lots of reports.
That's about it. Nothing really interesting. Which makes me think once Brian is done with Break-in I might retire from my blogging career. :)
Blessings,
~Cara
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Update! Phase 3 Starts This Week!
Can you believe it?! Phase three...time is flying. So far Brian is doing pretty well on the job. His daily scores have been decent. He is feeling more and more comfortable with the area. He is still learning a ton. He always has a story to tell me, and I have been brushing up on my 10 codes so I have an idea of what the story is about. At home, we have all settled into our schedules and our routines. So all is well.
Okay now that the update is out of the way, let's talk about driving. This is my way to give you all a fair warning. So you cannot say you were not warned. Before the Academy, Brian was a pretty safe driver. Nothing crazy! Used his blinker; made smooth stops; moved at the speed of traffic; overall a safe nerdy driver. During the Academy, he drove a little faster and showed off a little. It made me a little nervous, but whatever. Now he has been out on the road and has had two different FTO's give input on his driving. Now he drives like a maniac! I kid you not! No more smooth stops. Getting off and on the freeway is a terrifying experience! Blinkers are no longer used. He is that guy who makes you think "crazy driver". Seriously, my stomach spends way too much time in my throat. DUDE, where is the CODE 3?! (Like how I did that?) I know I am not alone. Other wives have shared in my terror. To top it off, as we go down the road (at break neck speeds) he points out all the violations. Example: "Tags", "cell phone", "riding to close", "unsafe blah blah blah". I know Brian would not do anything unsafe with us in the car, BUT it still does not feel so safe to me.
It is funny; however, when we are driving along and Brian notices a violation and he forgets he is in our car. :P He gets all frustrated because they are talking on their cell phone right in front of him and not even trying to hide! Then he remembers that 1) he is not on duty, and 2) he is not in a patrol car. So of course they do not care if he is right there. :)
The rest of daily life is as busy as ever. Busy, but running almost smooth. No illnesses, no major drama, just normal everyday stuff. :) Brian is pretty excited to have some newer newbies joining him at the San Jose office when the next class graduates! ;) Congratulations to all who made it! :)
Well, I think I will call it a night.
Blessings,
~Cara
Okay now that the update is out of the way, let's talk about driving. This is my way to give you all a fair warning. So you cannot say you were not warned. Before the Academy, Brian was a pretty safe driver. Nothing crazy! Used his blinker; made smooth stops; moved at the speed of traffic; overall a safe nerdy driver. During the Academy, he drove a little faster and showed off a little. It made me a little nervous, but whatever. Now he has been out on the road and has had two different FTO's give input on his driving. Now he drives like a maniac! I kid you not! No more smooth stops. Getting off and on the freeway is a terrifying experience! Blinkers are no longer used. He is that guy who makes you think "crazy driver". Seriously, my stomach spends way too much time in my throat. DUDE, where is the CODE 3?! (Like how I did that?) I know I am not alone. Other wives have shared in my terror. To top it off, as we go down the road (at break neck speeds) he points out all the violations. Example: "Tags", "cell phone", "riding to close", "unsafe blah blah blah". I know Brian would not do anything unsafe with us in the car, BUT it still does not feel so safe to me.
It is funny; however, when we are driving along and Brian notices a violation and he forgets he is in our car. :P He gets all frustrated because they are talking on their cell phone right in front of him and not even trying to hide! Then he remembers that 1) he is not on duty, and 2) he is not in a patrol car. So of course they do not care if he is right there. :)
The rest of daily life is as busy as ever. Busy, but running almost smooth. No illnesses, no major drama, just normal everyday stuff. :) Brian is pretty excited to have some newer newbies joining him at the San Jose office when the next class graduates! ;) Congratulations to all who made it! :)
Well, I think I will call it a night.
Blessings,
~Cara
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